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My Fiance and I went to a party on Sat night. His ex girlfriend was there not a big deal to me. She wanted to "talk" and he snuck out of the house with her for over 45mins! Then I called him and told him to get his ass back in the house. he stayed out there for another 20mins. so wtf was he doing out there? i feel so sick I want to puke. the worst part is I can't even leave him I have no where to go. It's over and he thinks I'm being crazy for reacting this way. I feel so betrayed. my heart is fucking breaking. and he thinks i'm overeacting am I? I don't think so but maybe I am.
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She is cultivating her lost relationship with him. And he is allowing this to happen. That means he likes the idea of dumping you and going back to her.
Beat him to the punch and give him a very cold shoulder until you both talk.
Simon, Lawyer, Relationship counselor, pdoc, therapist, sex therapist, and doctor.
What he did was, if nothing else, disrespectful to you.
And generally, that sort of behavior is a strong indication that something more is going on than you are being made aware of.
He 'sneaked' out? Always a bad sign if your SO is hiding anything.
She wanted to talk? Fine. But he should have told her to find someone else to talk to, that it would be inappropriate for him to be the one to do so.
And to minimize the incident, trivialize your feelings, and then turn this around so that the problem is you, is yet another slap in the face.
Regardless of how this plays out, start making plans on what you'd do and where you'd live, if you didn't have your fiance in your life.
'I can't even leave him I have no where to go' should not be a factor in this situation.
Do NOT marry this man until you have a healthy, stable relationship set in place.
The problem isn't just this one incident; It's the fact that this incident highlights the kind of man he is .
He sneaks, he lies, doesn't value or respect your feelings, and is not above trying to get you to second guess what you believe just so he doesn't have to answer for his actions.
This is a very serious and important part of your life. See it for what it is and act accordingly.
Don't brush it off and just hope that things like this won't happen in the future.
Good luck!!! I hope you get it all worked out!!!