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what i am about to describe is the second time this has happened to me:
i slept with a guy, but i'm unsure whether i had sex with him or not. he was drunk, and i was a zombie on my meds. he claimed to have passed out. but he also said he doesn't remember anything from the night.
so my question is: how do you know if you had sex, and how do you feel the next day??
i am freaking out.
please help me.
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Would this have been your first time if you remebered it?
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yes...
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If it was your first time, you would most likely feel a bit uncomfortable down there, maybe a burning when you pee.
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Well you may feel a littl esore. Were you undressed? Sometimes ppl start something and then pass out before hand. It has happened to me. I'm thinking no protection. What is your biggest worry right now hunny?
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if i found out that i had actually done it, and was pregnant, i would kill myself.
oh my god.
i was wearing clothes when i went to bed, but i dont remember much because my meds turn me into a zombie.
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Oh boy. Well you have time to think and don't freak out. I'm sorry first time is so confusing for you, on the lighter side it was confusing for all of us even if we did remember. Message me if you need to talk I'm here for you.
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.

A man 'who doesn't remember' if had sex the night before is a lying bastard.

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get yourself to a clinic and get some emergency contraception
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also, if it was your first time, the doctors can tell if your hymen has been broken.
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what they said xxx
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#7 not true. if the guy was smashed (which it sounds like), then he may have blacked out. you believe in blacking out, right?

even without meds and drinks, my memory is so poor that i've had to ask my lover, upon clearing the grogginess of sleep, if we made love or not, which is not exactly the most romantic thing a guy can say, but...
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also, the hymen check is not a good enough measure. lot's of women break it long before their first sexual encounter, through sports, activities, etc.
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i did it the other day actually.

see journals. iff u can find it amid the babble journals.
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