We may be bipolar, but we sure ain't stoopid.

Im going to have to go and read it now :))

One thing we do need to remember is that we as BP's tend to put ourselves in precarious situations when hypo/manic.

Just to be perfectly honest, I went through a lot of crap with my ex pertaining to sexual partners. Felt I had to do it for fear of losing my ex. Of course, my self esteem was curb high. I was #1 to him for many years. By the time all respect and love was lost, I was happy to have my life and move on to my new life.

It's not worth it. And, I hope nobody else has to go through the shit I did.

should we make a request to have it removed??

Or at least reverted to the correct place?

There is a fine line drawn in the sand on what we will do to please our partners.

1. Home cooked meal.
2. Clean undies and sox.
3. Ironed shirts.
4. Affection
5. Sex when we feel like it.

If it ain't broke why fix it.

And if he don't like it stiff bickies!!!!! :))

it might not have been the right thing to post that topic but that is when we need to just ingnor them post and not make a big deal about it. i mean eeryone once in a while does a post that maybe it shouldnt be up there but thats when us adults need to be adults and just not go to it...

Dobie: There's 3 kinds of people that can count! Those that can. And those that can't! (Grin)
Yes, the post was a little out of line.

Oh I really hope she thinks twice, make that three, four five times about that first! I hate to see anyone put themselves through a situation which more than likely has emotional disaster written all over it...

WAIT A MINUTE EVERYONE...
I don't think it's appropriate to get rid of her post! Some people assumed that she was looking for someone...I don't believe so.

I think it was her way of reaching out to find out what her friends here thought. If we can't ask for help even with this in BP land, something is wrong.

Aren't sexual issues such as this a result of our manias? I ask just to put it in perspective.

If I had this place 10 years ago to ask questions, I may not have had to go through all the shit I did.

You guys are terrible. Your judgeing and bichiness to exclude someone who asked for help is unforgiveable. We are responsinble for the messege that we carry to people here,
THIS IS A MENTAL HEALTH site and that means that we will get some posts that are challenging.
Lindell shame on you for trying to build an allegence and form a click to bash another person on this site.I like to think that I could bring anything here and get a fair and balanced response from you.
People here have bp and tend to be libereal with there sexuality when they are manic.PERIOD
Should we not talk obout it cause it makes you uncomfortable. HELL NO.
Dont turn your morals and ideals agianst somebody you might be able to help.

Poo on you guys that judge another.

I totally agree LuvNHope! Being manic can really skew judgement, but having a place like this to reach out or ask advice first could really prevent a potential catastrophe. I just hope that someone got through. It didn't seem like anyone was responding to it as a "personals ad".

I hope you are not refering to me Matt, Im merely trying to help her not make a mistake that will affect her for the rest of her life. Im not judging her at all, I think she is reaching out to here friends for their input.

Everyone here has the right to post their opinions, not everyone will agree with the context of this post, but it dosen't mean you have to POO on them and that they are bad people :((

Okay, I am confused. I dont see anyone bashing the Threesome post. I interpreted lindel's thread as a healthy, calm response giving "us" credit for handling the threesome thread with good advice. I will take a compliment any day. I commented on the Threesome post with my true feelings, not dirogatory remarks. I think lindel's post has as much validity as the Threesome post does, so why get upset. I didnt see it as trying to form any kind of allegiance.

You cansee it as you want re read through the posts it looks like a bash to me. We are so much better than god I hope we can help her. Give me a break.poopooopoo