hi, I have a dilemma, my niece is pregnant and having a baby shower,. Many, many years ago I had an abortion. I was in a situation of being married to a man who was abusive and didn't care about me or my child . I chose to have an abortion rather than raise a child on welfare and medicaid and live in a world of being locked into him for the next 18 years. Now my neice is pregnant and having a baby shower and I just can't bring myself to going to the shower, as it is triggering me from my past decision. What would you do? How do I explain without telling them about my past? I'm really upset about this. All of this celebration is causing me to have daily crying spells and doubts about my past decision that was almost 25 years ago. Any help out their? Sorry if this offends anyone.
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