Does he have BP?

Stop cutting. Stop. PLEASE.

STOP CUTTING...and go to your local ER. Either that or get someone to stay by you or that you can stay with that will keep watch over you.

It's horrible to hear that, but worse what you're doing to yourself.

You are in deep crisis....please call a crisis line..there are numbers at the bottom of the screen.

Oooh, this isnt good. He isnt good, your cutting isnt good. I have no clue what to say. If you are religious pray very hard. Dammit, I wish I knew what to say.

Okay... I sent this to my friends today, so I'll tell you too....
Friendship is like peeing on yourself.
Everyone can see it but only you can feel its warmth!

Hopefully that made you smile.. just a little?

Yeah...ER now! And call your husband and tell him to get his ass home!!

Put an elastic around your arm and SNAP it! Do it for me, will ya? Put it on your elbow.
Snap the damn thing and QUIT doing what you're doing!
Hugs!
Keith

the rubbger band is a good tool for sure... and snap it as hard as you wont woste damage is a big welt...and just make sure its not to tight... thats the very short term fix to putting the razor down...

You came here thats good....

As for the husband: DONT internalize this. I know accepting this is really hard.... but its not anoughter woman its not like he replaced you with some one like you. I know that probally doesnt make since right this minute but it will. He is having sexual encounters with anoughter man that mens he is questioning HIS sexual identity and that has nothing to do with you.... please keep this in mind... you did nothing wrong... but that doesnt make it hurt any less

I know this from experiance... but my husband didnt cheat on me with anoughter man he found some one to dominate him... yes in bondage and disapline and even sadomasicism.... I am very open minded and would have supported him in exploring this side of him self but he couldnt share it with me and so explored it on his own... and sex was involved....

THing is after a lot of therapy I learned to accept that this was nothing I could have stoped changed or affected.... no matter what my ex said. It was his issues... like bp would be yours... and is mine... I could no more change his sexual preferances and orientation then he could change my BP....

I hope this helps and that you keep it tucked away for a later time...

in the mean time get to a safe place... until you have time to work it out in your mind.... hang in there and keep with what ever meds/therapy/tools you normally use....


(((((many hugs)))))

You have had great advice here. Just know, and I mean KNOW! That he is the one that has been dishonest. YOU DIDN'T CAUSE THIS! YOUR BIPOLAR DIDN'T CAUSE THIS!

Cass,
Can you come back and tell us how you are? People here really seem to care about you and hope you are okay.

Stop cutting thats the worse thing then sometimes u have ugly scars u have to deal w/ the rest of urlife. U don't need to be hurting urself he already did. Get help, and he needs too. TC