That's an age old question, and many have tried to answer it. I don't think any of us will know the answer until after we have passed as well. Sending hugs, Rainbowmama

I FEEL THE SAME WAY EVERY DAY IAM ALIVE AND MY SON IS NOT!!! WHAT COULD I POSSIBLY HAVE DONE IN LIFE TO MAKE HIM TAKE MY CHILD? MY BEAUTIFUL LITTLE BOY DID NOT DESERVE THIS AND I DO NOT BELIEVE WE DID EITHER.
I DONT GET IT EITHER!!! ITS JUST SO NOT FAIR.

hey kelly, my son was a victim of homecide. he was what a mom would order up in choosing a son. i couldn't understand why God took him. i screamed at God, i whispered at God...why? I now believe that in spirit we make a deal with God to be born on earth and fulfil requirements which bring us closer to God, or the universe, or what ever you choose to call it. When we get it done we get to go home, to heaven. you made your deal with God also thinking you could handle it because you were in spirit when you made that deal, you were strong. you are still strong. raise your children, help them to see the correct path in life. you will be reunited with your husband in spirit, in heaven, in what to those on that side is just the blink of an eye.

I've open thought about the same things about "why" a certain person is taken when there are so many "bad" people out there...Well, I think I have part of the answer. We all look at death as something so terrible when in reality it is your husband's reward for being such a terrific person. God needed him up there for some reason. You might not know what the reason is now, but you will someday. As wonderful as he sounds, I bet he'd want to be the one to go first so that he can make sure that things are the way he'd know you'd like them when you cross over. He still loves you. He just has a different "job" that he's got to do right now for the "Big Guy". I know that doesn't take away the pain, but boy you sure were lucky to have someone as special as him in your life--and he left a bit of himself in your baby and etched in your heart. Hang in there.

I really know we are in this together because I have had the same feelings. My husband worked hard since he was 16 yrs. old. We built up a landscape business. Never smoked, never drank, just worked hard. Now that our children have grown up and we have a beautiful grandaughter, God decides to take him Yes, I am so mad too. When I see all the evill people out there, I say God you made a big mistake!!!

Perhaps someday the answer will come to us, I have passed the stage of anger and entered into the acceptance. I only say this to give you hope, everyday is a new day to find our way into a better place, a place that only we can create by moving forward with life. Hugs to you, I know your pain, anger, sadness, I trust it will get better for you soon. Liz

Some weeks ago, I asked the same question - and one of my friends sent a very simple reply - God needed another Angel. I like to believe that is the truth. What other reason could there be?

hi there i feel the same way you feel. my bro dead 3 years ago yes 3 years and i still feel pain hurt anger he was such a big man he had 3 children he was only 32 he dead 6 days b4 his birthday.

I have asked this question over and over again for the past few months. I got angry at God again, people telling me he has a plan for me. What was it...to take my love, soulmate, best friend and leave me here by myself??? He should not have died. The doctors out here put him in his grave. I wish I could give you an answer. My heart and prayers go out to you.
Marge

I don't know... I wish I did. You are in my thoughts & prayers.

I cannot believe this but I have the same feelings. I am so mad right now at God for taking a good, decent, human being. Someone said to me that God doesn't want anyone evil. I don't know but I cannot make sense of it either.

God picks the 'Prettiest' flowers! You are in my prayers! Penny

I struggle everyday with this exact same question since my dad was killed in a car accident. Unfortunately I don't have the answer, but my thoughts are with you.