Bereavement Support Group
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my only brother,dave has been missing now for almost 5yrs. we learned about a year ago that he was murdered,but his body/remains have yet to be found.my brother saved my life when i was 5 and i was almost kidnapped.if it wasn't for my brother,i wouldn't be here today!i miss him so much.just before he disappeared,we had a fight,and we both said thing's that we shouldn't have.i never got the chance to say i' sorry!!!it was hard enough for me to file the missing persons report,but the worst thing that was said to me by my mother was "it is my fault that this happened to dave" she blames me for his murder because i couldn't help him.i know that it had nothing to do with me,but the guilt i have may never go away.Dave was kind,caring,willing to help others,funny,etc, and jerks had to kill him.and for what??? he should be here with us!!!
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i am so sorry to hear about your brother. my situation is very different from yours except for the guilt. my husband died 2 months ago, and for the last few months of his life i was less than understanding. he had changed drastically in the way he talked to me and things he did so i honestly started to believe maybe he didnt love me anymore. and i was very hurt, so i decided to stop being as good to him as i normally was. i didnt cheat or anything like that, just wasnt there for him emotionally like i shouldve been. then i found out he had a brain tumor that was causing the changesin his behavior, and by the time i found out he was already having severe side effects. i did get the chance to apologize to him and he told me to never bring it up again. he was so great to me, i didnt deserve him. i think if your brother had the chance he would say the same thing my husband said. all brothers and sisters have fights. i know it was very bad timing, but in the end im sure he knew that u really loved him.
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I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS, I KNOW THE PAIN THAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH AND NO ONE SHOULD HAVE TO GO THROUGH IT!!!I AM HERE FOR YOU IF YOU NEED TO TALK OR JUST HAVE SOMEONE LISTEN!!!
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
