My friend who is suffering from a lose and is in the bereavement community was attacked by someone poor soul who has no experience in death or losing someone they love. They bought her down and I dont appreciate it. Why come on this site to bring people down. If you dont have anything nice to say then dont say it, didnt your mother ever teach you that? This site is to help others and to give support. When you lose someone you have to learn to do a lot of stuff all over again and someone who has no experience in the subject shouldnt be offering stupid advice to those of us who are trying to pick ourselves up and move on. The site is called Daily Strength for a reason and that is why we come here, to gain some strength. Our thoughts and feelings are ours and attacking them is not the right thing to do. I hope this person never has to endure what we have gone through. But be kind to those suffering no matter what it is. Its not your place to judge. So I am sorry this person had such a small mind to hurt my friend like they did. If you really knew what it was like to lose those you love you might realize that you could have put that person back in her recovery process. It has taken her months to get this far, I hope you didnt screw that up for her. She is trying, we all are. You implied that all of us on the bereavement site here a bunch of losers who dwelled on our problem. Leave us alone, we got a lot to learn and we dont need you bringing us down. Dont be preying on us.
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