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WHEN THE MOST PRECIOUS THING IS GONE

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Nov.4th, 2007 I lost my most precious person in the whole world, my 2yr.7mo. old daughter in a terrible accident. We were out camping that weekend, feeling so close and happy with my husband, my son Alex 4yrs. old and our Annie, our very special gift from God, who was born in the arms of her Daddy on the side of the freeway! We were ready to leave, when her uncle, my husband's brother backed his truck and ran her over we saw with our own eyes what our baby turned into. It was the most HORRIBLE thing a parent could see!!! Both my husband and me had a very special bond with our daughter. She was a healthy and very happy child and beautiful too. She was such a joy!!! She was the best friend to her brother(they are 1.6yrs. apart). He saw it too, but I think the terrible image ia erased from his memory. At first he was waiting for her, but now he knows, she is not coming back. We are devastated and find ourselves more and more angry with her uncle, that vehicle should never been moved when small kids are around, especially backing, instead of going forward where you can see (and in the forest there's plenty of room for that). The truck was running and we didn't have our guard on, because we never heard it start. Nobody knew he would move, as he didn't say anything... We were so close and happy that weekend and it ended with such a tragedy!!! What a senseless loss!!!
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That is so awful. I cant even imagine what you went through seeing her. I dont even have the words to express the feelings i have for you with this tragedy. Again I am so sorry for your loss
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my hear breaks for you. the loss of a child is something no one should haave haveto go through. 2yrs ago on june 16 i put my 6 month old little girl down to bed, my boyfriend was home, and i went out with my mom shopping, she wasnt feeling great that week, so i told him if she wasnt up in an hr call me, give her all her meds (his is her dad and a nurse) he called me and told me she wasnt breathing, and they flew her to the nearest childerns hospital, where she lived for 2 more days, by the end of the 2nd day she was failing on life support, so we had to "let her go with God" i still cry everyday, and i feel ceated, like we were bad parents, she was are 1st child and r world, she was the 1st grandchilden for my parnets and the 1st grandaughter for his. rember she is your little angle, and most importantly, as all parents who have lost a child need to some how come to trems with is that we did nothing worng, nor could we have prevented it, because it if we coulld have we.

like any other parnt in our shoes we have been cheated out of something so wonderful a r child, i feel so angry inside sometimes around the hoildays, i should be buying a christmas dress taking her for picuters with santa, buying her christmas peresents, not getting ready rto order a grave blanket for her. i am sending you hugs and best wishes, i would like you to join my friend list beacause, u need a lot of support right now and i am here i also know that u can help me, that is what this site is all about.
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This has happened to so many people. It is so tragic. I am so very sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what youare going through. All I can do is offer huggs and a should er to cry on. Rainbowmama
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How horrible for you and your family. I greatly understand your pain,I lost my 17 yr old daughter Miranda 3 yrs ago,Due to someone elses negligents(sp).
I don't think I can or ever will forgive that person. I know this is not what God would have me do,But this person has no remorse what what he has done,He is living his life and walking around without a care in the world.All the while I live with my broken heart. But I believe in Karma,and what goes around comes around, It may not be here on this earth but it will happen. (((HUGS)))
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Words cannot express my heartfelt emotions and sadness I feel for you. I pray that God conforts you and holds you so tight in his arms. I am so, so sorry for your loss. I have never lost a child but I am here if you need an ear or a shoulder to cry on. xoxo
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Hearing that makes all my troubles seem like little nothings. My baby will be 3 soon and I could not imagine a day without her. My heart and thoughts and prayers are with you this holiday season. That is so sad i'm crying.
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HI.I feel for you even though I am not a mother.I can just imagne the pain,the anger that you feel.I am vey sorry about the loss of your precious one.Hugs.
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