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What should I do with(medials)

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My farther died 22 years ago and he wanted his medials to go to Robert, Because they were so close, Dad alway took Robert to all his baseball games Dad was robs bigest fan all the other grandchildren dont remember him very well, When Dad died Robert was lost and he never got over it, He always talked about Dad to everyone, Robert was killed Nov 3 , And I would like to send Dads medials with him. Because no one would appreseate them more.
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You need to do what you think is best. There are many ways to handle it. You could send the medals with Robert or you could set up a memorial to both of them. Do what is right in your heart. That is all that counts. My prayers are with you. Becky
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You must do what you feel in your heart.If sending them with Robert is what you want then thats what you should do.You could frame a picture of your dad and Robert and put the medals with them.But whatever you do should be what you want.much love sc
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That sounds like a touching idea, if you feel you can part with them. My MIL had my FIL's arranged in a large picture frame, and my husband has it.
I realize that you might be indecisive, as once they go with Robert, they will be gone forever, but if that's what your dad wanted, maybe that's what you need to do.

Huggs Rainbow
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hi Kelly, You should do what makes you feel good....when my daughter passed..she had a engagement ring on..and her fiance wanted to know if he should keep it for her daughter...I told him I rememeber how much she loved that ring and how excited she was to get it....she also had on a pair of gold earrings....I told him whatever he wanted was fine...so we took off a earring..so he could make a small nugget out of it for her to wear on a necklace...so whatever makes you feel good you do it....that made me feel good..to know Kayla would have something from her...luv sallie
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