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Two weeks before my youngest son was killed I had a dream ( nightmare ) in this dream I saw that my two boys had been riding in a vehicle with my 1st husband ( my oldest sons bio-father ). I saw that they had been in an accident, I could see that Cody ( my oldest son was dead , and that Shawn my youngest was fighting to stay alive ).
I woke up screaming and crying the dream was so clear and so vivid! Shawn was sleeping with me that night and I woke him up with my crying. He was only 8 years old but he wa rubbing my back saying "it's ok mommy it just a dream" I jumped out of bed and ran to Cody's room and woke him upo to tell him of the dream. I pleaded with him to never ever take Shawn and go anywhere with this person.
Two week later Shawn was struck by a car while at daycare. He was on life support for over 72 hours.
Cody was killed in a car accident when he was the passenger in a truck that was driven by his bio-uncle, (the uncle and father look very much alike )In the dream I could only see the back of the person's head, I just thought that it was David Cody's biofather.
Anyway, Cody died on impact.
I was telling a friend about this, and they said.... did you ever stop to think that they were supposed to die together? Things may have been changed because maybe losing them at the same time would have pushed me over the edge?
It made my think!
Anyways, about 2 weeks before Cody was killed, I had a dream that I can't remember. I woke my husband up due to my screaming and crying,I was yelling " not my boys"
The night that I had to go to the hospital and identify Cody ...whenI saw him all I could say was " not my boys"! I didn't connect this until just recently
So, I do feel that I was preparing myself some how....but it didn't help! Just wanted to share. To see if anyone else has had similar things happen to them.
I woke up screaming and crying the dream was so clear and so vivid! Shawn was sleeping with me that night and I woke him up with my crying. He was only 8 years old but he wa rubbing my back saying "it's ok mommy it just a dream" I jumped out of bed and ran to Cody's room and woke him upo to tell him of the dream. I pleaded with him to never ever take Shawn and go anywhere with this person.
Two week later Shawn was struck by a car while at daycare. He was on life support for over 72 hours.
Cody was killed in a car accident when he was the passenger in a truck that was driven by his bio-uncle, (the uncle and father look very much alike )In the dream I could only see the back of the person's head, I just thought that it was David Cody's biofather.
Anyway, Cody died on impact.
I was telling a friend about this, and they said.... did you ever stop to think that they were supposed to die together? Things may have been changed because maybe losing them at the same time would have pushed me over the edge?
It made my think!
Anyways, about 2 weeks before Cody was killed, I had a dream that I can't remember. I woke my husband up due to my screaming and crying,I was yelling " not my boys"
The night that I had to go to the hospital and identify Cody ...whenI saw him all I could say was " not my boys"! I didn't connect this until just recently
So, I do feel that I was preparing myself some how....but it didn't help! Just wanted to share. To see if anyone else has had similar things happen to them.
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Wow- that must of been hard. I lost both my parents the same week, but also not together. You must be a very strong person. Maybe the dream was meant for you to think of the possibility of losing your sons so the shock wouldn't be quite so great? Sorry for your losses.
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I can not begin to say that I understand your grief. I do believe however, that sometimes we are prepared to a point before a tragic event. Believe what your heart tells you to. Sending huss, Rainbowmama
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