Bereavement Support Group
Are you grieving the loss of a loved one? Whether you lost someone recently or it's been years, grief and its accompanying emotions can be complicated to cope with. Join our online support group to connect with a supportive group of people who really know how you feel. Help is right here.
Our daughter died on Nov 04, she was 28. Her death is under investigation. Her ex told her a week and a half before her death, that he could kill her and nobody would ever know. More than likely this man will not be arrested for lack of evidence, but even so we are still waiting on autopsie results. This waiting is driving me crazy. The police have been unhelpful to say the least. Our daughter left behind a 9 yr old daughter. She also left behind 8 siblings. My children want to know why and how. We cannot tell them because we don't know ourselves. Has anyone had to deal with something of this nature? waiting? What if there is no justice--how do you cope?
take care,
Cindy
take care,
Cindy
deleted_user
I am so sorry about your loss. I for one, have never had to deal with this situation and can not begin to imagine what you are going through. All I can offer right now, is huggs fro all of you, and prayers that the cause will be found nad that justice will be served. Many huggs, Rainbowmama
ihart
When my son died it took 5 -6 weeks before we had any results.
deleted_user
I had a boyfriend at one time who sounds alot like your daughters ex. He told me that he could kill me by using chopped up cat wiskers in my food and nobody would know. Cat wiskers tear your insides apart. I don't know where in Iowa you are. If you don't get results, request a crime lab being involved. County Coroners just don't know everything. Wishing you and your family the best.
deleted_user
I am so sorry for saying the things I did. What you wrote just hit me hard, but that is no excuse. I hope you can forgive me. I wish you speedy results and piece of mind.
deleted_user
No need to apologize. The impact of DV is hard. For many they spend years looking over their shoulders. We are located right next to Omaha,NE. She lived in Omaha and died in her home. The tears have not stopped since her death. It feels unreal. I feel in many ways I have failed her. The what ifs are hard. Him walking the streets is hard. The thought of never knowing or having justice, eats at me. Hubby keeps saying we're suppose to go first. Our grief is overbearing at times. Thank you all for your support, especially the prayers.
deleted_user
Sorry for your loss.I can only tell you my expierence. It took 8 week to get results from my daughters death.Also I will tell county coroner don't know shit,they are eleceted offical,they don't need a medical background.However a Medical Examiner is a Doctor,and know what the hell is up, If you are not happy when you get results find an M.E to redo results. I hope this helps,and pray for you to find some peace(((HUGS)))
deleted_user
We had a preliminary report in days. The complete autopsy report still isn't here, and it's been 5 1/2 months. Hope your luck is better.
Join the Conversation
-
theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
-
I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
