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I am having a horrible time of it. It has been 5 months and the pain is still so raw. Very few minutes go by without thinking of him. I just miss him so much. My life is so empty.
I can not focus at work. If I could sit in front of the TV all day, I would do that. It is the only thing that distracts me from the flashbacks. It is either horrible flashbacks of that day or longing for him.
I finally gave in and asked for some meds to take away the anxiety and depression. I have been on them for a week and hope that will take the edge of of it.
I think I am crazy but I have gone to match.com just because I am so lonely and looking for someone to fill the void. I feel terribly guilty and like a cheater. I wonder how I could be doing this but at the same time, I need something to distract me from this pain and the only thing that I think could help is to have a love like him in my life again. Am I crazy for doing this?
Have any of you begun dating again and if so, is it it possible to move on and be fair to another person as it is hard to imagine ever feeling the same towards another again but can't imagine not either. I feel crazy. Don't know what to do with myself. Trying for my family not to completely shut down.
Thanks for listening
I can not focus at work. If I could sit in front of the TV all day, I would do that. It is the only thing that distracts me from the flashbacks. It is either horrible flashbacks of that day or longing for him.
I finally gave in and asked for some meds to take away the anxiety and depression. I have been on them for a week and hope that will take the edge of of it.
I think I am crazy but I have gone to match.com just because I am so lonely and looking for someone to fill the void. I feel terribly guilty and like a cheater. I wonder how I could be doing this but at the same time, I need something to distract me from this pain and the only thing that I think could help is to have a love like him in my life again. Am I crazy for doing this?
Have any of you begun dating again and if so, is it it possible to move on and be fair to another person as it is hard to imagine ever feeling the same towards another again but can't imagine not either. I feel crazy. Don't know what to do with myself. Trying for my family not to completely shut down.
Thanks for listening
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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Has anyone tried these supplements? Do they give MGers more quality of life by improving memory and overall well being?Thanks!Barbel
As far as dating, probably not a good idea. You have hard issues to deal with right now, but I do agree you need a distraction. This is a great time to take up a new hobby. Learn to crochet, or sew or join a walking club. It is a miracle how good you feel when you can just talk, laugh and live.
Take care of yourself.
I'm sorry things are so hard for you right now.
Have you looked for support groups in your area?
Rainbowmama
best wishes,
joy
First, learn to take care and love yourself. If you are in the same frame of mind I am in, your head and body are disconnected. I think we need to bring them closer together, to become a whole person, again.
Trish