i am writing because i need to let go of an old church that hurt me so badly. i was in a "so-called" transitional home, but it ended up being nothing but verbal abuse from a minister that I considered a mother to me.. sounds crazy right... well it was me trying to replace my mother and i will never do that again. the whole experience was a big ball of dependency... I felt like i needed these people. they took my money every sunday, charged me rent in a church parsonage that was suppossed to be helping me under tax free status, non profit. i have had the hardest time letting go of patty and that church. i have cried and cried. even after her husband ronnie violated my boundaries, i continue to miss these people. well i saw one of the other women this week that this program has destroyed and heard some things and it is giving me closure that that church is unhealthy. I don't want to go back to drama world. i am perfectly happy at my current church. I am so glad that i'm finally realizing that getting involved in that drama is not the way to go anymore.
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