My mother passed suddenly early today and we are all in shock and dismay.. What was supposed to be a routine surgery on wednesday ended in her passing today.. I am left feeling angry and helpless. Trying to stay strong for my family is not going well we had little time to adjust or prepare. Hoping anytime to awake from this nightmare. Trying to erase the images of how she looked connected to all those machines and the displacement because it really didn't look like her when she passed. Anger for the lack of medical attention that led to this. It was like loosing her to a car accident in the hospital. My stepfather has the largest adjustment and none of us know how to best help him. It hurts hearing him say he wants to go next and soon and that all he has to live for is gone.. I can empathise with the hoplessness that has fallen over us all buy am having trouble dealing with my wife and childrens as well as my own greif in addition to his.. Overwhelming and too much too fast!!!
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