I posted a topic about 4 months ago relating to my fiance's mother. A few of you replied and I thank you, you helped me to see things from a different perspective, which in turn helped us. We were in Cambodia where my fiance teaches, in September. I had been there 2 weeks when I received the unbelievable news that my dear Dad passed away suddenly. So now we've lost his Mum and then 4 months later my Dad. I'm devastated. The hospital fucked up and did tests on him without his consent and its just the biggest mess I've ever been in. My fiance is in Cambodia, I'm in Melbourne, Australia and I don't think this could get any worse. He's been lying to me, only little white lies that I only found out about because I had to come back...long story.. but I'm trying to be strong and not let paranoid thoughts take over my brain, because I'm in the hard place right now and I don't need to make it any more difficult than it already is. Can anyone just talk to me about what I'm going through and how do I learn to trust him again, how do I stop myself from thinking that he's going to cheat on me while I'm away, he's not very good with communicating, didn't want to come back for Christmas because he doesn't want to sit around being miserable with his family( his words ), he's not being there for me like I was for him..well he is but its so half hearted and occasional,the phone system in Cambodia is shit.. and through all of this I have to remember that he's lost his Mum too.. All he seems committed to is work. I'm planning on going back but I'm so scared. I'm so so scared. I miss my Dad so much and nothing, no amount of money from the hospital is going to bring him back..Please help me
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