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I am truely sorry for the pain that everyone including myself is going through.
All of the discussion on suicide had me thinking.
I personally think that suicide is a tragic mistake especially when it is a person who is grieveing loss.I feel that we do no justice to the people we love that are still alive and no justice to the loved ones lost. Besides, I fear that if , say... I were going to kill myself, I would know that it is not in the natural order of things and would fear not going to a place where I would be with me beautiful boys and other family that has past on.
All we can do is live with and endure the life that we have been handed.Our lives are nothing that they used to be ,we are not who we used to be.
We can be thankful that we had these wonderful people in our lives and be thankful that we loved and still love them so completely that we feel it every day...every minute.
So, I beg any of you to reconsider if this is a thought ( suicide ).
Sometimes I think that things do happen for a reason , and we were chosen to go through this, for whatever reason. This is our cross to care. We are stonger than we think and I know God is there holding our hands, even when we're mad at him for " what we think of as taking of loved ones from us"
So we must all stick together and help each other through... once again. thins happen for a reason....we all found this site. We will all have terrible days and we will have ok days,and we'll all have each other. I would like to think that somewhere out there our loved ones have directed us to find each other because our family has met over there on the other side. Who knows? It could be.
I am here to be a shoulder to cry on and someone to talk to.
All of the discussion on suicide had me thinking.
I personally think that suicide is a tragic mistake especially when it is a person who is grieveing loss.I feel that we do no justice to the people we love that are still alive and no justice to the loved ones lost. Besides, I fear that if , say... I were going to kill myself, I would know that it is not in the natural order of things and would fear not going to a place where I would be with me beautiful boys and other family that has past on.
All we can do is live with and endure the life that we have been handed.Our lives are nothing that they used to be ,we are not who we used to be.
We can be thankful that we had these wonderful people in our lives and be thankful that we loved and still love them so completely that we feel it every day...every minute.
So, I beg any of you to reconsider if this is a thought ( suicide ).
Sometimes I think that things do happen for a reason , and we were chosen to go through this, for whatever reason. This is our cross to care. We are stonger than we think and I know God is there holding our hands, even when we're mad at him for " what we think of as taking of loved ones from us"
So we must all stick together and help each other through... once again. thins happen for a reason....we all found this site. We will all have terrible days and we will have ok days,and we'll all have each other. I would like to think that somewhere out there our loved ones have directed us to find each other because our family has met over there on the other side. Who knows? It could be.
I am here to be a shoulder to cry on and someone to talk to.
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Perfect- thank you. My feelings exactly.
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Bless you!!!
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Wow, that is so beautifully put. The thing that most keeps me from ending it all is that I fear I won't see those I love on the other side, whatever that may be for each of us. It was reaffirming to see you write that. Most days I feel like I'm only existing, waiting for the end, but I know that as you say I need to let it happen in the "natural order of things". Thank you!
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Well put, God bless you
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I deeply agree. I lost my boyfriend of 4 years to suicide in Oct. No words can describe the feeling of loss especially when taken in this manner. God Bless you and I pray that somehow together we can "save" someone from this terrible choice.
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DITTO!
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I agree completely with everything you said, and you put it so well. Thank you.
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that is very true I though of end all after loseing my mom But I want ot see her agin some day that why not go to end all evne win there are bad and hard time thank u for that
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suicide only creates more of the loss pain and heartach. because just as you morn the peron youve lost people will morn you. dont let death be the answer its always wrong.
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