Hi there..

Just wanted to say please don't feel alone...i lost my mum in October 2006 and i feel totally the same...i wish i had the answers..but i don't am afraid..i live one day at a time..just wanted to let you know please don't feel alone..as others like myself can relate to all you feel.
Take Care
'sensitivesoul'
xx

Wow! I was wondering the same thing! I feel exactly the same and my mom left me on 09/25/2007. I also have panic attacks....and I feel so alone, even though technically I'm not.
I do hope you and all of us can figure out how to be happy again!

SOme people have a harder time coping than others. Maybe you should web search grief help for more suggestions. Maybe you could use the help of a counsellor. It's hard to say how long this will last in any one person. I am sorry you are having sucha rough time. Huggs, Rainbow

I totally understand. I just lost my Mom Augsut 7th, 07 and she was my best friend and the only person that I could tell everything too. If you need to talk just write me and I will be glad to help you thru this. I read alot of books on grief, heaven, and anything that could help me that moment.

Hang in there.

I am going through the same feelings I lost my mom in april 06. I think that first we need to remember that it is ok to be sad cry or even be angry. Life changed and as in with most changes people do not deal well with change. Remember that the only way things will get better is if you allow it to .

Nothing is wrong with you, I morn the loss of my Mom everyday - she passed away May 10th and I miss her terribly. I too have Panic attacks and although I am not alone I do feel empty inside! So believe me you are not the only one feeling this way (even though we feel like we are) and we are all here for eachother.

I lost my mom June 8 - I think it is just now starting to really hit - I definitely understand how you feel and I know that it will not go away anytime soon. Like others have said I feel alone as well even though I am not. Nothing is wrong with you - it is such a normal thing to be that sad - but please do try to talk to someone...a counselor maybe as someone else has suggested. I wish the best of luck getting through this - and remember there are many people feeling how you feel...

Hi. My mom passed away March 15, 2006. And I still cry for her everyday. I have severe nightmares. Almost every night. I wish I knew a solution. But I don't think there is one.

I completely understand how your feeling. I lost my Mom on July 25th, 2005, and I still cry for her. I talk to her pictures, and that does help me sometimes. That may sould silly, but I actually hold her picture and I talk to her, as I would if she were standing here infront of me. I think whatever helps you, go ahead and do it. If listening to her favorite music helps, then do that. I find myself saying things my Mom always said, re-acting to situations as she used to re-act. It makes me smile to notice these things. I just wanted you to know that I understand how your feeling. I too wish I had the answers, but I just don't. I think it will always hurt, but in time, we will learn to adjust.
Hugs,
Lorie

I lost my mother October last year- and reading your post was like reading my own words. Everyday I hurt from the loss. There isn't one day that goes by that I don't think about her. I don't think the empty space can ever really be healed- but I'm hoping that somehow we begin to accept as time goes by?

I'm sorry about your Mom. I lost my Momma 3 years ago, March 24, 2004. I still miss her, I still cry, and I still feel that empitness. But, sometime down the road, when you think about her, some of those tears will be tears of joy mixed in with tears of grief. It took me many days to get out of being a zombie, there's no timeline and no answers...but we understand, i hope that helps