Recently I lost my fiance to APL. He pssed away only five days after being diagnosed leaving behind our now four month old daughter. My question has to do with frineds and family and religion so I am hoping this does not offend anyone. I keep getting this same comment from many different people, "It is God's plan." I know they mean well, but it hasn't even been a month yet and I am still VERY angry. Does anyone else get this comment from people and not want to hear it right now? I don't like this plan and I want a new plan. Please let me know if I am completely out of line--Jacqui
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