My boyfriend wants a break. He says he's not sure of a lot of things now, including whether he loves me as a friend or as the woman he wants to marry. We have been through a lot as a couple for almost 3 years. I asked how long he had been feeling this way and he said since he got back from home (the state the funeral was in, which I also went to). Just last week he was holding me and telling me he loved me. I think he is just going through a lot of emotions (which he also has trouble expressing) and needs his space. I am giving it to him, but it is so hard for me to not contact him. I haven't talked with him for a few days and it hurts me to not be able to comfort him knowing he is going through this. It hurt me so bad to even get to the point of a break because I keep thinking it will lead to a break up, which I don't want. In my heart I know that he just needs space and I'm trying my hardest to give it to him. I know that not being there is the best thing I can do to "be there". I know he is going to see a counselor for it, I am just struggling with it. Is there any advice someone can give me?
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