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picking myself up

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how do i pick myself up out of this overwhelming agony and pain and anger and madness , i just feel so not me at all ,i have completely changed who i am, death is weird like that, it throws everything you know and believe to the wayside, and i just cannot make myself move on and now it's affecting my family life, how do you tell yourself to pick up and carry on, when all you knew is gone forever,they say misery loves company, well i've got plenty of company in my life, now i'm back to the crying out whenever it hits me, i cannot remember the last great day i had, i am so sad and scared and broken, really really broken, will i ever be fixed?
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I replied to this earlier, but I don' t know where it went. You will be "fixed" one day. It may take months, or a year or tow. One day, you will wake up, and the sun will be shining in your heart again. Huggs, Rainbow
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You pick yourself up slowly. You make small goals for yourself. Don't look to have a great day yet, look to have a great hour. Then look to have two great hours together. I have felt completely non functioning myself. It has gotten better some days and some days still not so much. It has become more better days than bad. Nothing heals instantly, but as time passes, slowly I think things get better, a little easier to deal with, more happy memories than sad. You are not alone....
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as hard as it may be I know I feel like I will never be fixed, but you know i hold the hope that I will see my dad again one day and it gives me the assurance to go on, not quickly, but slowly. I know how you feel its like the world around you is moving so fast and you cant keep you mostly because you dont want to keep up. We will get through this together we will find a way together... I will be praying that God give you peace.....If you want to chat I am here any time!
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Remember one thing. There is no death, no time and no space. The so called dead are just as alive and real as when they were here. Maybe more so for now they are whole and complete. Together with the ones for whom they grieved. Just remember this when you feel you can't go on.
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