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PEACE

deleted_user
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I AM ASKING EVERYONE TO PLEASE PRAY TODAY FOR THIS SITE. PRAY FOR IT TO GO BACK TO THE WAY IT USED TO BE, PRAY THAT PEOPLE CAN STOP HURTING EACH OTHER ON HERE. EVERYTIME I POST SOMETHING I AM ATTACKED. I AM HERE TO FIND STRENGTH, NOT TO BE HARASSED. CAN WE ALL JUST TAKE THIS ONE DAY TO PRAY FOR PEACE ON THIS SITE AGAIN. LISA AKA WHYHER64
doctortyper
doctortyper
Thank you for that. We need support more than anything else and we must not judge people - we do not walk in their shoes.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I agree with doctortyper. Anyforum is for support not for attack.
No one should ever be judged, for we know not their circumstances.
deleted_user
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SO MUCH FOR THIS POST HELPING. THERE IS A WOMAN ON HERE WHO THINKS SHE IS GOD. MUST BE NICE TO BE SO PERFECT. SHE JUST WANTS TO START TROUBLE. WHY???????????? NOW SHE IS IN TO CALLING MY FRIEND AND I NAMES. THIS IS CRAZY, THIS PLACE ISN'T HEALTHY ANYMORE!!!!!!!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
WELL I GUESS THIS SITE IS NOT ABOUT HELPING IT IS ABOUT IF YOU DO NOT AGREE WITH ME I WILL TURN YOU INTO DOUG FOR HARRASMENT HARASSMENT IS NOT A STATEMENT THAT DISAGESS WITH YOU HARRRASMENT IS WHEN YOU ARE BE EMOTNALLY ATTACKED I COULD SAY THAT TURNONG ME IS A HARRSAMENT BUT IF YOU FEEL THE NEED TO GO AHEAD AND REPORT ME THIS SITE IS DOING MORE HARM HAN GOOD THANKS TO CERTAIN PEOPLE
deleted_user
deleted_user
I have had very similar situation in another community, I withdrew from there! I am here for you! & I stand in agreement with you in praying for PEACE HERE!
deleted_user
deleted_user
joining in prayers for peace

name calling and finger pointing is not helpful to anyone

If we don't have something nice to say, we need to keep quiet.

Messages of support, hope, encouragement, that's what I would like to see more of.

And no more in-fighting.

If we really have to vent, take an empty chair in your house and imagine the person you are angry with sitting in that chair, and let them have it with both barrels - in private where no one else can hear. If you feel like being nasty, go to your bathroom mirror, and have at it. That way you get it all out of your system and don't upset everyone who can't handle it on top of their grief.

just a suggestion

(I've sat many a person in my empty chair over the years!)

same thing works with writing the person a letter that you never send, and destroy the letter afterwards.

hugs and prayers
Becky
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