I hope what I say does not bother anyone, But I was sitting here thinking about that post from the other day about the loss of a child and the loss of a parent. And it made me think of something my hubby said on the way home form my moms funeral: well it had only been a week since we had buried our daughter so I was just all over the place in my head, And I said to him I dont understand my sis she was such a mess when her hubby died but she did not cry once for our mom today. He said that when you lose a spouse it just hits you like you could never belive. That was the person that you picked to spend the rest of your life whith now that dream is over, Just like when we lost sarah wehad os many dreams for her now they are gone. With your mom you knwe that it would happen becasue she was so sick. I dont feel the way that one poster did, I am still heartbroken over the lost of my mom, But now that i have thought about it more and thought of what my dh said, I can undertans her alittle better. SO please know that I am sorry to that poster for getting so upset with her at first. We all grive for the ones we have lost in our on way and in our on time. Thanks for leting me say my peace
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