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I lost my nana to cancer just over 7 years ago.
I lived with her for over a year while she was sick so she wasnt on her own she had cancer and it spread all over.
I miss her like mad i just feel so guilty as i didnt see her for 2 wks b4 she died, when i wanted to see her i was too late. I never got the chance to tell her how much i loved her and i never got the chance to say goodbye!which now makes me feel guilty!
I think part of me thought she wasnt going to die and that she would get better i was only 13.
I had a tough year with other things that had happened.
I cryed for hours after my mom told me.
I went to her funeral i cryed in the church then at the wake i was there for bout half an hour then i left! I should have stayed i know,
That was the last time i can remember crying.
I am so selfish somtimes when i think of her ill be thinking why do u leave me without saying goodbye? Why did u have to go i needed you?
No one really talks bout her its like they have forgot all bout her. So i got a tattoo with her name on and made sure i showed all the family to remind them about her and that i havnt forgot her and niether should them!
This is the first time i have spoke bout it. I dont think that i have gieved properly but i dont know how to ?
I know that i need to i have started to get help with other things and i thought to my self that i need to deal with this too.
Does anyone know what is the right way and how to grieve over the loss of my nana?
Hey dont know if u can read nana but if ur reading this just want u to know how much i love u, miss u and sorry for letting u down xxx
I lived with her for over a year while she was sick so she wasnt on her own she had cancer and it spread all over.
I miss her like mad i just feel so guilty as i didnt see her for 2 wks b4 she died, when i wanted to see her i was too late. I never got the chance to tell her how much i loved her and i never got the chance to say goodbye!which now makes me feel guilty!
I think part of me thought she wasnt going to die and that she would get better i was only 13.
I had a tough year with other things that had happened.
I cryed for hours after my mom told me.
I went to her funeral i cryed in the church then at the wake i was there for bout half an hour then i left! I should have stayed i know,
That was the last time i can remember crying.
I am so selfish somtimes when i think of her ill be thinking why do u leave me without saying goodbye? Why did u have to go i needed you?
No one really talks bout her its like they have forgot all bout her. So i got a tattoo with her name on and made sure i showed all the family to remind them about her and that i havnt forgot her and niether should them!
This is the first time i have spoke bout it. I dont think that i have gieved properly but i dont know how to ?
I know that i need to i have started to get help with other things and i thought to my self that i need to deal with this too.
Does anyone know what is the right way and how to grieve over the loss of my nana?
Hey dont know if u can read nana but if ur reading this just want u to know how much i love u, miss u and sorry for letting u down xxx
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