My Mom pased with cancer in Dec 2006 after a 3 month battle.My husband was no support at all,if anything he made it worse.Now his Dad has been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and given 3 months.I have always been close with his parents..he never was with mine and now I feel myself filled with resentment.I will never make his parents suffer but i always feel like I have to get him back for the way he did not support me.Is this normal..its like I just want to scream and hit him for not supporting me whan my Mom was sick.The worst is about a month ago he looked at me and said"you are the second most contrary person in the world,your mother was the first.This was after my Mom passed.He never did like her but he did not have to say that to me.Any advice ..I am at a loss as to what to do
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