It all started on april 23rd 2008 when my husband and I play competition pool and we were at a match and it was around 9:45 pm and my husband said he felt as if he was going to pass out and didn't know why. We continued on and by 10pm the game was over and we left for home. I woke up at 1:50am out of a dead sleep with this weird pain in my head and it wasn't a headache and my husband woke up asking me what was wrong and I said I don't know that it didn't hurt just a weird feeling and I was wide awake. I laid there wide awake wondering why this was happening and finally fell back asleep bout 5 am. I awoke at 5:30 am by somebody knocking on my door. Myself and my husband ran to the door and opened it to see two dps ( department of public saftey) officers standing there with a piece of paper and they started asking me my maiden name and if I knew and was brad eudys mother.
I knew instanly why they were there. I wanted to shut the door on them but they said can we please come in. I let them in and they asked us both to sit down.I asked them to please be quiet as my three girls were sleeping.
Then they told me those horrible words that I will never forget. Your son was in an car accident and it was fatal. Those words will forever run through my head. I fell apart and ran to my room. My husband told them to leave and they did. I found out later that day when the dps officers came back to my home some of the details but not much. I know my boy was with his girlfriend and then there was a driver . my son was a passenger in the back seat. The driver had her dog with her and somehow she lost control and didn't even hit her brakes and the car rolled ejecting my son only. He died at the scene. the girls where airlifted to tucson to a major hospital.
They only suffered minor cuts and bruises.
I never received a phone call from the driver to tell me she was sorry. My sons girlfriend did call me three days later. I never thought in my life that My child would go before me.
I still wait for his phone calls and beg god to wake me up from this nightmare. I am in denial at times. waiting for somebody to say ha ha got ya this was all a horrible joke.
My girls are what gets me through this everyday. I have to be strong for them. My son died from multiple blunt force trama. My husbands dizzy spell and my pain in my head made complete sense. We were feeling what our son went through. So please anyone with children, listen when you get that feeling something is wrong somebody is telling you that there is something wrong. I have heard that a mother knows when something is wrong with her child and I do know that it is true.