I am not sure where to start. I had asked for advise concerning my son-in-law and I thank you for the ones that responed. The whole situation is so damn complicated. And then out of the blue my daughter Jamie calls me yesterday after not hearing from her for three months. Her man gave her a choice him or her family. I assumed she chose him because no one has heard from her. Her and my son-in-law have been going at it since my daughter passed and she seems to think that I am shitty mom because I won't and can't fix the problem between them two. I am stuck and don't know what to say or what to do. I have already lost one child and now I feel like I've lost two. I have four kids and I raised them myself. We have always been close until this past year. I feel like my heart is just being pulled apart from every direction. I can't seem to please anyone and honestly I am just trying to do the right thing and cope day to day. If anyone has any suggestions I could sure use them. I just want my family to it together. Its bad enough one of us is not coming back and we need each other and so do the kids. Please help me.
Posts You May Be Interested In
A friend sent this to me..As far as I can see, grief will never truly end.It may become softer overtime, more gentleand some days will feel sharp.But grief will last as long as Love does - ForeverIt's simply the way the absence of your loved onemanifests in your heart. A deep longing accompaniedby the deepest Love some days. The heavy fog mayreturn and the next day, it may recede.Once again, it's...
Today is my 25th birthday, to my somewhat lack of surprise I can see already no one really seems to care. I've always been the kinda person to make sure that everyone I Care about feels appreciated and knew somebody had their back. I can count 4 times this year when I Went out of my way to make sure a "friend" felt good on their birthday, especially if they got left hanging. Its early in the...