I am not sure where to start. I had asked for advise concerning my son-in-law and I thank you for the ones that responed. The whole situation is so damn complicated. And then out of the blue my daughter Jamie calls me yesterday after not hearing from her for three months. Her man gave her a choice him or her family. I assumed she chose him because no one has heard from her. Her and my son-in-law have been going at it since my daughter passed and she seems to think that I am shitty mom because I won't and can't fix the problem between them two. I am stuck and don't know what to say or what to do. I have already lost one child and now I feel like I've lost two. I have four kids and I raised them myself. We have always been close until this past year. I feel like my heart is just being pulled apart from every direction. I can't seem to please anyone and honestly I am just trying to do the right thing and cope day to day. If anyone has any suggestions I could sure use them. I just want my family to it together. Its bad enough one of us is not coming back and we need each other and so do the kids. Please help me.
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