My daughter has just joined this site tonight with me. We are both struggling with losing a lot of people we love in such a short period of time. We lost close friend of the family...she was just 17, then my Mom passed a couple months after that, then my Son died 2 months after that. My Dad abandoned our family after my Son died. Then we lost my Brother-in-laws little brother a little over a year after my son died. His girlfriend was the one who died first. Then my ex Mother-in-law passed last year, and lastly my Ex Husband who I still love to death passed this last Sept from Cancer. We are having a tough time understanding why our family is going through so much pain. We are terrified of who will be next. My daughter and I try to act like we're numb to it all by now, but I know we're not. We try to be strong for each other, but we don't talk about it, because we don't want to upset each other. How can we face all this tragedy and not take it out on others? if anyone has ever gone through so many losses at one time, please give us guidance. My daughter is my best friend and as a Mother I want to help her, but I don't know how to help myself. If you see her on here (chavezfam5) please help her and I to know that we're not alone, and help us to get over this fear of loss. Thank you...Pam
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