ohh my lord im so sorry for your losses you will definitly be in my prayers i dont think god hates you sometimes bad things like this and makes no sense i wish i could say somthing to make things better but im here if you need someone to talk to

oh sweetie, i'm so sorry for your losses. there are no words to help ease your pain. the Lord does not hate you. I have had so much horrible things happen to me as well, but I've learned that things just happen. God is not a hating God he is an almightly loving God. unfortunately with all of the things that you have been through, your life is going to be a roller coaster. you're going to feel angry, sad, and also finding life does suck!!! please take care and know that i'm here for you when you need to talk!!

OMG I am so sorry for your multiple losses...I know how hard it is thinking that God punished you for something. What did I do wrong? This life does suck sometimes. What if...? If only...? Emotions run high and low when you lose one person, but add another and your world is shattered. Your heart feels like it can take no more of this...But there must be a reason you are still here. I believe God is a just, loving being - but there are times when he can't do anything to stop horrible things from happening to us on this earth. As I grieve, I feel God by my side, grieving with me, trying to console my broken heart - again. Unfortunately, we may never know the reason why we have to suffer so much misery and others suffer none. Life is never fair...I think every emotion we feel is legitimate - it's the way we learn to live and cope after those we love so much leave us. Always..

I am sorry for all your losses. It sounds like you have really been through hell. I am proud that you are still fighting. Through you there memories live on. I have found that on my bad days I have to think of the people I have lost and what they would have wanted for me. I miss them all dearly and though it may sound crazy I still talk to them today. When I get jammed up I talk to my best friend who died of breast cancer at 35. I always find that if I really listen I can hear her advice and it really helps me move on. There are not answers for why the people we love die. Trying to find that answer only drives me crazy and makes me feel depressed. I have to focus on the here and now and do the best I can. I am here for you if you ever need to talk or vent. I do care.

Oh Dear od bless you,I know your pain,I have lost a child,she was 17. I talked to her on the phone from work and an hour later she was dead.I was so angry with God for the longest time.And still have to fight the urge to not scream at people,for going on with there life,and my whole world has stopped. There are no words of comfort,no words of understanding. Just know you are not alone,and we are all here for you.((((HUGS)))

oh my goodness... you have suffered much... you are in my prayers. *hugs*

Hi Tina,

No God does not hate you and he is not mad at you. I am soo sorry for your losses. I could not understand why God took my son. And I have days that I am filled with anger and days just filled with sadness. I was just given the advice to read the book of Job. I just started it, but Job lost all 10 of his children and I hear that in the end God blessed him abundantly. Join me in reading this book. Message me your thoughts, we can do this together.

I am so sorry for everyone of your losses,
In 1995 I lost my best friends mother, my kids called her gramma gert, my favorite grandma,(NaNa), by boyfriend, now he is my husband father, all within a month and then 4 monts later I lost my daughter. my heart goes out to you. I wish there was something i could say, I know there is'nt so i will just send you a hug

I can only imagine your despair. I wish there was something I could say to help you feel better. I don't beleive that God is here to hurt us, we live our lives on this earth, subject to earthly trials. He is our comfort and our door to a better place. I can understand the anger and the sadness, it's up to you to allow healing to come into your life. When you are ready the Lord will embrace you and help you through what all you have lost. Hugs to you, Liz.