I'm sorry you lost your dad...and your family is not listening to your feelings.

It is no wonder you are struggling...we are here for ya.

Oh wild I am so very sorry your daddy, your best friend is gone and that you are hurting like you are. I lost my best friend (my momma) 6 months ago and I feel your pain sweetie. If you want to talk I am around.

Love & Peace

Im sorry about your dad, I lost mine in August and I am still hurting, but it sounds like your family are worried about you. I stopped talking to my best friend after my dad died because I felt she wasnt there for me, But everyone is telling me I have been evil to everyone around me and im the only one who hasnt seen it. Try counseling so you can talk to someone about it. I hope you feel better soon

When we are traumatized by something, our bodies and minds try to shut down, to protect themselves. There is something called "blind rage" and it can also happen when we are over loaded with shock and grief. Whether your family believes you or not, it could well be that you have not memory of that incident.
My condolences on the loss of your dad. Mine has been gone for 31 yeaars mext week, and sometimes it still seems like yesterday. Celebratory times only serve to enhance our pain.
HUggs,
Rainbow

I'm so sorry that you lost your Dad. I lost my Dad last year and he too was my Very Best Friend.

Our Dad's are still with us very much so in Spirit.

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Love Helen.
XXX

I first want to say how sorry I am about the loss of your dad. I lost my dad (best friend) almost 15 years ago. I still miss hime every day, especially since my son died in July. I'm trying to hold on to the thought that they are together now and be happy for both of them because they loved each other so much. I'm trying to honor my dad by keep all his wonderful qualities alive in myself.
Maybe you need to take a break from your family now since they don't seem to understand how deeply you are hurting. Or maybe have a talk with whomever you are closest to and tell them how you feel and ask them to share with the rest of the family your needs at this time. Just a thought. Be kind to yourself whatever you decide to do.

I believe you have the right to grieve in your own way. Your father has passed, now you need to take care of yourself. Try to ignore other's negativity.

so so so sorry people do stuff when their in alot of heartache.You just do what you have to do.How did your father and your best friend die?If you want to share that with me.I can't get out of my head seeing my son in that casket.Justin has been gone 13 months and I still miss him so much.It's hard I know your pain and just know we are all here for you to vent or just give you encourgement.BIG HUGS,jfm24,Vicki

I am very sorry about yuor dad and the loss of him I am glad he was your best frined. I am sorry that yor faimly doesnot understand yuor pain huggskthyjo

I lost my dad almost 7 months ago, and i feel like my family doesn't understand sometimes. Mostly just my husband, he just doesn't understand the pain that I have been in every day since my father died. My mom would unload on me, she was a mess during the time before my dad passed away (we knew he had terminal lung cancer for 11 months before he died) and I always had to be the strong one. I got so tired of hearing everyone else cry and never being asked how I was doing. It sounds selfish, but that's how I felt. My family has yet to ask me how I am doing with the loss of my dad.

I'm sooo sorry! Everyone grieves in their own way and your family needs to understand that. I lost my Dad 5 years ago. It's still tough but it does get better. Don't let anyone make you feel guilty for grieving. I will pray for you!!
Hugs~
Sue

You need to hang in there. It only gets better, I promise. This is a normal part of the grieving process. I also lost my father and have found myself doing things that are out of the ordinary. How are you doinjg now?