Okay my hubyy of 7 months lost his first wife 5 years ago today. He was fine till about an hour ago. HE lost it in the car. Then we drove it to the house and got in the garage he said he was gonna go for drive. I said okay and he drove off. Well I called him and asked him if he wanted me to go with him and he said no he needed time. So I said I loved him and I was there for him and he said okay. Well then He wasnt home and wasnthome and I texted him and said I was sorry for bugging him but wanted him to know I am there for him and Love him. He texted back and said ok and thank you. Then I asked him if we could talk and he just said....LATER. Well about 10 mintues went by and the youngest called and said he needed a drive home.....so I had to call him cause he was out. He didnt answer at first but then after the second try he answered and said okay and I said Love you and he said love you to with no emotion and hung up. WHAT AM I DOING WRONG??? I no grief....Ilost my youngest 2 years ago (13 yrs. old) and I know it hurts. But I am not sure how to handle this. What do I do....I feel guilty cause I am hurt. I want him to turn to me .........What should I do?
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