I am fighting teeth and nail on another board that I am on about pictures of "born sleeping" children in signatures on boards specifically designed for those who are grieving. People just don't UNDERSTAND. They seem to be so stuck on being right that they can't put themselves in another's shoes for three seconds and realize that showing people their child is part of the way they grieve, and that it has NOTHING TO DO WITH THEM!!!! Having a picture in a signature has nothing to do with how THEY feel, with the fact that THEY might be disturbed with seeing it. SO WHAT!? Guess what, your discomfort is absolutely nothing compared to the pain that a parent feels when they lose a child. I haven't even lost a child of my own, but my SIL has, and I have seen her pain. If having pictures of a child helps them in ANY WAY, then what's the big deal!?!? I am so angry.
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