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hurts so much

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five years ago my baby sister disappeared and foul play is suspected.it is suspected that her husband murdered her,though to this day the authorities can't find her.it hurts me because she wouldn't put mom,me or her 3 children through this.sometimes i don't know how i will get through this.she has always been my bestfriend.then 2 years ago i met a lady and we became bestfriends.she helped me deal with my sister,but she became ill last april with liver disease and she died in june.it hurts so much that i lost 2 very important people in my life.though i am trying to move forward.i have recently started college to get my cpa degree.i just try to stay busy,but sometimes it's hard and i do some things that i shouldn't to help myself deal with it.
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Such terrible losses. I'm so sorry. I imagine you have a lot of unresolved questions surrounding the disappearance of your sister, and I'm so terribly sorry for that. I have to say, what has given me so much comfort is not having any questions about the death of my daughter - I know why it happened, where she is now, when I will see her again... It's good that you're keeping busy. It helps. I don't know what I would do without my other two kids keeping me sane every day. I'll be here for you to help you sort out the questions you have or for anything else you think I can help with.
starfish
starfish
You are doing so well, even if you don't feel like it. I know it hurts so much, and you still have the courage to keep moving. Just give yourself all the time you need, and time to rest when you need it, so you don't get overwhelmed.
CPA is a tough course - but you can set your own hours, more or less, if you work for yourself, and make good $$.
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