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how to forgive

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My mom was taken from me on October 29th by a man who decided that he didn't need to scrape his windshield full of frost. He went across 2 lanes of traffic and hit my mom and killed her instantly. I'm having a hard time even believing this happened and trying to figure out where to go from here. She was my best friend. We talked all the time. I talked to her the night before she was taken. I am very thankful that I was able to tell her that I loved her one last time.
I'm not sure how to get through this ordeal with the driver. I'm just plain upset. I feel that she should still be here. All he had to do was take 2 minutes of his time to scrape a windshield. How hard is that? My mom was so full of life. She was in great health. I just find her passing senseless.
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I know how you feel. I'm as only child and took care of my mother when she was 58 of lung cancer. People ask me one time do you think you could have handled it better if she was in a car wreak, I said no, I didn't want her to go either way. I'm very sorry for your loss.
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I don't have any great words of wisdom but I do know how it feels to lose my Mother in a blink of an eye.
My heart goes out to you and your family in this great time of sorrow. Always here if you need to talk.
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I agree with you, it was senseless. Is the driver even upset about what he did? I certainly hope so. I am sorry you have to go through this. We are here for you when you need to talk. My prayers are with you.
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Her passing was senseless. Was he ever brought up on any charges? You'll probably have a tough time forgiving for a long time, if you ever do. I hope you do eventually for the peace of your own heart.
The world is turning so cold and calloused. You wonder where we will all end up in the madness.
Huggs Rainbow
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