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Her is my story, in the two years my boyfriend and i have been together we lost 3 loved ones i i misscarried our first child.
We lost his mmom in july of 05, i had a misscarrige in aug, of 05, his grandmorther passed away in jan of 06, and just this past june my grandmorther passed away, to make things even harder on us both my great grandmorther is currently in the rehab where he is a nuse and the night charge nurse.
this makes for a rough go at home sometimes, espeacaily when i go to see her and she has been waiting 10 mins for an aide to get her to the bathroom, or she needs somethings and the aides are standing around not ansewering her call.
at work he is no different form anyone eles who works thier, i hold him to the same standards as everyone eles and sometimes a higher one.
when he dose his med pass, he always make sure no matter what side of the floor he is on he dose hers, this brings me a peace of mind,to know that she is in his care even when my family and can not be with her.
at first his boss was not sure if this conflict of interest was the best thing for all involede, form my family, to his position our, relationship, and his job and postions.
however it has proven to be the very thing this rehab needed to get rid of those who just were not good employees for one reason or another. and since she has been their and he has been in charge of the one shift many needed changes have taken place, they still have a long way to go.
His boss, has been wonderful to me and our whole family his co workers our suprized att how well we are able to handle this very different and difficult time, yet we manage to keep our relationship complety away form his job. She has been their since july and his co workers just found out we are dating for the past two years.
I need help to understand why i am feeling so many mixes emotions, and my hope is that this post brings strenght to all who read it.
We lost his mmom in july of 05, i had a misscarrige in aug, of 05, his grandmorther passed away in jan of 06, and just this past june my grandmorther passed away, to make things even harder on us both my great grandmorther is currently in the rehab where he is a nuse and the night charge nurse.
this makes for a rough go at home sometimes, espeacaily when i go to see her and she has been waiting 10 mins for an aide to get her to the bathroom, or she needs somethings and the aides are standing around not ansewering her call.
at work he is no different form anyone eles who works thier, i hold him to the same standards as everyone eles and sometimes a higher one.
when he dose his med pass, he always make sure no matter what side of the floor he is on he dose hers, this brings me a peace of mind,to know that she is in his care even when my family and can not be with her.
at first his boss was not sure if this conflict of interest was the best thing for all involede, form my family, to his position our, relationship, and his job and postions.
however it has proven to be the very thing this rehab needed to get rid of those who just were not good employees for one reason or another. and since she has been their and he has been in charge of the one shift many needed changes have taken place, they still have a long way to go.
His boss, has been wonderful to me and our whole family his co workers our suprized att how well we are able to handle this very different and difficult time, yet we manage to keep our relationship complety away form his job. She has been their since july and his co workers just found out we are dating for the past two years.
I need help to understand why i am feeling so many mixes emotions, and my hope is that this post brings strenght to all who read it.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
My mom was in a HCF for the last 14 months of her life. I felt guilty about that every day. Also, being a former HCW, one who used to take care of everyone, no matter who they were assigned to, I used to get angry when I saw them standing around when people needed them. I just had to remember, that we aren't all "cut from the same cloth," and that there were some there, who went above and beyond their call.
As long as you don't interfere with his work, and he gets his work done without taking too much care of your ggm, you should be o.k.
You're going throu a lot right now. Give yourself a break. You have to take care of you, in order to take care of others. Huggs, Rainbowmama