My other half and father too my children drowned 14 mths ago,a 30ft wave dragged him out too sea...How do you help the kids?...My 2 elsest who are 17 and 16 seem to just carry on..a little quiet but seem ok..but my 13 yr old daughter is haveing a hell of a time..shes wrote suicide notes ect Im in the process of getting councilling for her..she does recive a little at school..my youngest is only 9 and hes angry..angry at everyone..hes also down for councilling we are "in the system"!..but what helps in the meantime?..Im here for them always and I tell them each and every day how much I love them and how much daddy does..even though hes not here..he will be watching over them..how do I help them when I find it all so hard myself?..does anyone have any advice please?...hugs Mel XxX
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