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My partner and I have been together for about 3 months and we have been really happy but about 2 years ago, he experienced something very painful with his ex-girlfriend. She became pregnant with his baby and they had it aborted after 3 months of the pregnancy. He was 21 at the time and had to deal with burying his own daughter. His girlfriend left him immediately after that and he has blamed himself ever since. This has haunted him and is still doing to this day. I do not know how to help him as he is not religious and he shuts me out when he started thinking about the past. I want to help him and share his pain but he wont let me in and it is making our relationship very strained.
mgs1
He buried a 3-month old fetus?
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If he won't let you in, or talk about it, I don't know. He probably won't seek counselling will he? Those of us who are spiritual can pray for him, and for you. Sorry you are going through this. Rainbowmama
ihart
I don't understand? How can you bury a fetus after an abortion? Is he telling you the whole story? How did they know this was a girl usually when one has an abortion the sex is not discussed??
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