I think we are all wondering the same thing about our loved ones. It hurts so bad to think they aren't with us.

Maybe you could do something to honor him and his memory. Maybe everyone say a favorite memory or make a decoration for him??

I have been asking myself that very same question. I just pray and I go see my daughter and talk with her even though she can't talk back. I know some will think I'm crazy but I will be taking her a plate of food on Thanksgiving, just like I took her some candy on Halloween. Christmas I will do the same. Its my way I guess of having her here with us. I know you hurt badly and I am so sorry.

i'm so lost too. I imagine we'll get through the same way we've been managing, with a lot of pain, a lot of tears. I have no answers for you, I'm right beside you. My prayers and hugs to you. Lynette ~ Matthews mom

I wonder this everyday. I have heard Christmas music and it makes me sick. I shop and now that doesnt feel good because people are singing christmas songs. I only wish I could be that jolly. I find myself being a grinch.
I know it will be hard. one thing my mother has done is decorate my fathers grave. Each holiday she brings something different. A marble top for thanksgiving, lamps for christmas. Its turing out nicely and she enjoys that she can still do things for him.

i too am wondering how i am going to make it thru the holidays without my dad...but what i did see was some ornaments at walmart the other day that can be engraved, thought perhaps i would get a few of them, engrave the different dates on them with my dads name so that he can be a huge part in this with me