Hi i'm new to this community. I thought that maybe anyone who has lost a parent figure might have some advice or resources on how to better heal. It's been 5 years, but it still affects me. I have dreams about her, and they usually are about how i couldn't save her, couldn't do anyting for her. Guilt, in short. I was out of state and couldn't even be there for her. I cry everytime i think about it. If only i could've been there maybe she'd have pulled thru longer. She hand cancer, I know it runs its course, but still...And i know she wouldn't have to suffer anymore. I've been told all that, but what else is there than can really help?
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