My mother on law passed away from cancer on 7/14/07. I am married to her youngest son. The two were extremely close and my husband is taking it very hard. Three weeks ago my husband had suicidal thoughts and almost followed through with it but thankfully called a friend and the friend took the loaded gun out of his hand. Two days later he came in and told me he wanted a divorce - we have been married for 5 years - never argue - have a great relationship but according to him we are miserable. He moved out for four days and hen moved back home. It has been three weeks now and everything has been going good but then Thursday Aug 30 he told me again he wanted a divorce. I do not want a divorce as I have loved him since highschool and waited for him for 12 years before he ever asked me out. We are in our late 30's. Does anyone have any advice for me? Is this normal behavior after the death of a parent? He is on Lexapro, Xanax and his doctor perscribed him Phentermine in June to help him lose weight. I am not sure this has anything to do with his behaviour but thought I would throw it out there.. Need help...Thanks.
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