i lost my mum quite a while ago and ive only just realised that she is not coming back. I lost her at the age of 24. mum was 60. i feel so helpless and seem to be in this big dark black hole. I have 2 children, 1 was born 5 weeks after losing mum and the 2nd was born 4 months after losing my brother who was 47. Im not sure if i can cope anymore. I try to deal with it but its absolutely horrific. I dont think ive ever greived for either of them and tried to stay strong for the sake of my children born at the same time as the deaths. Is there anyone else who has been in the same situation. please help me.
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