my son at the age of 20 died 2 years and nine moths ago along with my 2 year old granddaughter. They drowned in a horrible boating accident. The vision of their struggle haunts me often, even though I try to not allow it to. We were told in the search that one day we would find a new normal. Never forget, never be the same, but that we would find a new normal. Time and positive memories has helped us tp begin to do that. We grief and we morn the loss daily. For all of you that think it is hopeless to go on. I want you to know that you will. The pain may linger a long with the despair and dread of missing them. Don't get me wrong the pain will be there but it will ease into good memories if you allow it to. Don't give up. You will find a new normal. It hurts and it always will but you have to remember that you keep them in your heart and they are always with you!!!! I know this may be hard to hear and stuff you have heard before but I write this to assure you that you will be okay and they are okay too in some way, if you believe that live it.
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