Absolutely. No one wants that for their child, spouse, parents, siblings, friends, etc.

I know my Mom would never think that was ok. As bad as it hurts, even our mom's had to go through with losing thier mom's...so they know how it feels. In fact, almost everyone has to go through it at some point in time. I know that fact doesn't help how we feel, but it is what it is, unfortunately....

I would be incredibly disappointed and sad if my daughters took their own life. We all have hurt, unhappiness and pain in our lives, but it makes us stronger and better people by working through them. By taking her own life they would miss out on all the joy there is to come. I would want my daughters to work through their issues and find the happiness that I know is out there. Bless you, toocool, I hope you can find that happiness.

but you'd be pleased ur daughters were with u right ?xx

No, not if it really wasn't there time. I would be hurt that they did that....

I would be so very sad if my children thought I would want that.. I gave birth but they are Gods children.. Just as you are.. I will miss my Mommy when she passes but I know she would want me to live on this earth doing what she wanted me to do.. Being happy..Love D

I would not be pleased that my daughters were with me. I will be with then always, but I also will be too busy in heaven doing stuff. They need to tend to their business on earth and live their own full lives. I would be more pleased knowing that my children are living a full life and seeking their true happiness, not living their life through me.

I don't think that people who have passed over can realize our earthly sadness. And IF they can, they have full knowledge of WHY we are suffering in such unfair ways.

I think that our earthly time is something manmade and that when we leave this plane, that there is a totally different concept of time.

For instance, I have been missing my daughter for twenty one years; yet I think that time is different for her... Like it might seem only 21 minutes for her.

I have nothing to base this on... it's just a belief I have developed.

Jo :)

Yes....because you lost someone very dear to you, but now you have to honor them and live as full of a life as you can!....You have to rise up from the ashes...

i want 2 go with her :( x

Don't go with her, that's not what she would want. She wants you to figure this out and be happy. That is how you can show your mother the love you have for her, not by ending your life. Please work on fulfilling what your mom would want for you on this earth before you would consider that.

maybe she wants me with her.x

why do you think she wants you with her?

I felt like joining my husband, so it may sound totally crazy, but I just put it in my mind that there is no life after death and that we will not see them. If I think like that there is no reason for me to leave this earth because I am not going to join him anyway. Goes against my beliefs, but its what works for me now. Please hang in there. We are all there for you.

You are such a beautiful intelligent young lady that has so much life to live. Although it may hurt NOW, it will not hurt forever. You will always have wonderful memories of your Mom, but you will heal. You will never forget her, absolutely not, but your life will move on. You will lead your life as she would want you too...and that is a life on this Earth, not in heaven. Your Mom would most definitely want you to be happy here and fulfill all the dreams you want.