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I told someone else this story and thought I would actually post it and see what everyone else thinks. So last night, I woke up at 4am not feeling too well. I sat here at my laptop and thought I would write a little something to my deceased father. Some of you might understand this....others might think i'm crazy, but I was hoping he would write me back. I just want to KNOW that he's around. I never have dreams about him. Do you believe our lost loved ones can see us and/or come visit us and we may just not get the "sign" that they're around?
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I'll send one of my angels over to help you out.
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I'm not sure what I would do if i got a comment back that sounded like it was from him, but for now it helps keep me sane...
Your not crazy, your finding your own way to deal with your loss, (((hugs)))
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When my second son died, (15 years ago), a few days after he passed, I dreamt that he walked into our room as usual, came and sat with me on the end of the bed. I held his hand - I felt his long fingers. He looked at me and said "I am dead, huh." I said yes and hugged him tightly. He then went to my nightstand table and rummaged through it's contents. When I awoke, I immediately looked in my nightstand table but I found nothing of significance. When the first Mother's Day without him rolled around, I was feeling very down and crying. For some reason I decided to clean out my nightstand - I found a Mother's Day card that this son had made me when he was younger - it said "I love you Mom". I truly believe both my sons are beside me, that the veil between life and death is "thinner" than we think.
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