Bereavement Support Group
Are you grieving the loss of a loved one? Whether you lost someone recently or it's been years, grief and its accompanying emotions can be complicated to cope with. Join our online support group to connect with a supportive group of people who really know how you feel. Help is right here.
DEAR ELIZABETH
HEY HONEY HOW ARE YOU DOING? I AM SO WORRIED ABOUT YOU I HOPE YOU GET THIS AND REPLY SO I KNOW YOU ARE OKAY I BEEN TRYING TO CALL YOU BUT YOU WONT PICK UP PLEASE I KNOW YOU ARE HURTING NOW AND MY MOM IS NOT HELPING AT ALL SHE IS MAKING ME HATE HER SO MUCH RIGHT NOW. I AM SORRY THAT I COULD NOT COME AND SEE YOU THE OTHER NIGHT I CRIED MYSELF TO SLEEP THAT NIGHT BECAUSE I WANTED TO BE THERE FOR YOU AND I COULDNT. I AM SORRY. I HERD THAT YOU AND MICHAEL ALSO BROKE UP YESTERDAY I AM SORRY HE IS AN ASS IF YOU ASK ME HE KNEW THE PAIN YOU WERE GOING THROUGH WITH YOUR MOM AND HE STILL HAD THE BALLS TO CHEAT. I AM SORRY I KNOW IT WAS NOT EASY FOR YOU TO TRUST ANOTHER GUY BECAUSE OF YOUR EX AND I AM SORRY THAT I PUSHED HIM UPON YOU IF I DIDNT DO THAT YOU WOULD NOT HAVE GOTTON HURT AGAIN I AM SO SORRY. PLEASE FORGIVE ME. I ALSO WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT I LOVE YOU AND EVERYONE HERE LOVES YOU TOO. WE ARE WORRIED ABOUT YOU. AS FAR AS MY MOM FUCK HER SHE JUST HAS TOO MUCH GUILT SHE BELIEVES THAT IF SHE CAME BACK INTO YOURS AND YOUR MOMS LIFE SHE COULD HAVE HELPED HER MORE. I KNOW SHE CRIES AT NIGHT CALLING OUT FOR YOUR MOM. BECAUSE OF THIS I DONT KNOW WHY SHE IS BEING SO MEAN TO YOU. YOU AND HER WERE CLOSE. I KNOW YOU MISS HER. I MISS HER TOO. I FEEL MORE CONNECTED TO HER THEN TO MY OWN MOTHER I COULD TALK TO HER ABOUT ANYTHING (MOM IF YOU ARE READING THIS YES IT IS TRUE) I LOVE YOU EVEN THOUGH I COULD NEVER TAKE THE PLACE OF YOUR MOTHER NO ONE CAN I WANT TO BE YOUR FRIEND SOMEONE AROUND THAT YOU COULD TALK TO ABOUT ANYTHING WHEN YOU TOLD ME YOU MIGHT BE PREG. NOT ONCE DID I THINK BAD OF YOU AND I AM NOT LIKE MY MOTHER I ASKED YOU IF I COULD JOIN THIS SITE AND READ YOUR PAGE AND YOU AGREED AND I AM GLAD. I DO WISH THAT YOU WERE ABLE TO TELL ME ALL OF THIS TO MY FACE BUT JUST BY READING IT I KNOW IT WOULD HAVE BEEN IMPOSSIBLE FOR YOU TOO DO. AND I AGREE WITH EVERYONE HERE THAT YOU ARE STRONG BECAUSE IF YOU WERENT YOU WOULD NOT HAVE BEEN ABLE TO COME HERE AND FIND THE SUPPORT THAT YOU WERE LACKING I HAD NO IDEA THAT YOU STILL THOUGHT ABOUT 9 11 I DO EVERYDAY AS WELL I WAS SO CLOSE TO YOUR BROTHER CHRIS WE WERE ALL SO CLOSE AND HE DID NOT DIE MAD AT YOU HE LOVED YOU AND STILL DOES AND YOUR MOM IS WITH HIM NOW ALONG WITH DAVID AND BEN AND SAM. SHE HAS THEM WITH HER. SHE IS WITH HER SONS AND DAUGHTER AGAIN. SHE IS HAPPY AND NO LONGER IN ANY PAIN. BUT I AM SURE THAT IT IS BREAKING HER HEART TO SEE YOU LIKE THIS. AND YOU DAD WAS A SICK MAN WHO GOT WHAT HE DESVERS. YOU DID NOT CAUSE IT PLEASE KNOW THAT AND KNOW THAT I LOVE YOU AND THAT I AM ALWAYS HERE FOR YOU SO IF YOU WONT CALL ME PLEASE MESSAGE ME ON HERE I NEED TO KNOW THAT YOU ARE OKAY. I LOVE YOU ELIZABETH.
P.S YOU ARE THE GREATEST AND WE WILL GET THROUGH THIS TOGETHER IF YOU LET ME HELP YOU .
P.SS.
MOM IF YOU READ THIS ALL OF THIS IS TRUE AND I AM MAD AT YOU FOR NOT HELPING HER SO IF YOU WONT HELP HER AND WONT LET ME HELP HER LEAVE THE BOTH OF US ALONE I DONT WANT TO LEAVE BUT I AM 18 NOW AND IF THINGS DONT CHANGE I WILL LEAVE.
I LOVE YOU ELIZABETH YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AND A VERY VERY
STRONG YOUNGE LADY
LOVE ALWAYS YOUR COUSIN
MATT
HEY HONEY HOW ARE YOU DOING? I AM SO WORRIED ABOUT YOU I HOPE YOU GET THIS AND REPLY SO I KNOW YOU ARE OKAY I BEEN TRYING TO CALL YOU BUT YOU WONT PICK UP PLEASE I KNOW YOU ARE HURTING NOW AND MY MOM IS NOT HELPING AT ALL SHE IS MAKING ME HATE HER SO MUCH RIGHT NOW. I AM SORRY THAT I COULD NOT COME AND SEE YOU THE OTHER NIGHT I CRIED MYSELF TO SLEEP THAT NIGHT BECAUSE I WANTED TO BE THERE FOR YOU AND I COULDNT. I AM SORRY. I HERD THAT YOU AND MICHAEL ALSO BROKE UP YESTERDAY I AM SORRY HE IS AN ASS IF YOU ASK ME HE KNEW THE PAIN YOU WERE GOING THROUGH WITH YOUR MOM AND HE STILL HAD THE BALLS TO CHEAT. I AM SORRY I KNOW IT WAS NOT EASY FOR YOU TO TRUST ANOTHER GUY BECAUSE OF YOUR EX AND I AM SORRY THAT I PUSHED HIM UPON YOU IF I DIDNT DO THAT YOU WOULD NOT HAVE GOTTON HURT AGAIN I AM SO SORRY. PLEASE FORGIVE ME. I ALSO WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT I LOVE YOU AND EVERYONE HERE LOVES YOU TOO. WE ARE WORRIED ABOUT YOU. AS FAR AS MY MOM FUCK HER SHE JUST HAS TOO MUCH GUILT SHE BELIEVES THAT IF SHE CAME BACK INTO YOURS AND YOUR MOMS LIFE SHE COULD HAVE HELPED HER MORE. I KNOW SHE CRIES AT NIGHT CALLING OUT FOR YOUR MOM. BECAUSE OF THIS I DONT KNOW WHY SHE IS BEING SO MEAN TO YOU. YOU AND HER WERE CLOSE. I KNOW YOU MISS HER. I MISS HER TOO. I FEEL MORE CONNECTED TO HER THEN TO MY OWN MOTHER I COULD TALK TO HER ABOUT ANYTHING (MOM IF YOU ARE READING THIS YES IT IS TRUE) I LOVE YOU EVEN THOUGH I COULD NEVER TAKE THE PLACE OF YOUR MOTHER NO ONE CAN I WANT TO BE YOUR FRIEND SOMEONE AROUND THAT YOU COULD TALK TO ABOUT ANYTHING WHEN YOU TOLD ME YOU MIGHT BE PREG. NOT ONCE DID I THINK BAD OF YOU AND I AM NOT LIKE MY MOTHER I ASKED YOU IF I COULD JOIN THIS SITE AND READ YOUR PAGE AND YOU AGREED AND I AM GLAD. I DO WISH THAT YOU WERE ABLE TO TELL ME ALL OF THIS TO MY FACE BUT JUST BY READING IT I KNOW IT WOULD HAVE BEEN IMPOSSIBLE FOR YOU TOO DO. AND I AGREE WITH EVERYONE HERE THAT YOU ARE STRONG BECAUSE IF YOU WERENT YOU WOULD NOT HAVE BEEN ABLE TO COME HERE AND FIND THE SUPPORT THAT YOU WERE LACKING I HAD NO IDEA THAT YOU STILL THOUGHT ABOUT 9 11 I DO EVERYDAY AS WELL I WAS SO CLOSE TO YOUR BROTHER CHRIS WE WERE ALL SO CLOSE AND HE DID NOT DIE MAD AT YOU HE LOVED YOU AND STILL DOES AND YOUR MOM IS WITH HIM NOW ALONG WITH DAVID AND BEN AND SAM. SHE HAS THEM WITH HER. SHE IS WITH HER SONS AND DAUGHTER AGAIN. SHE IS HAPPY AND NO LONGER IN ANY PAIN. BUT I AM SURE THAT IT IS BREAKING HER HEART TO SEE YOU LIKE THIS. AND YOU DAD WAS A SICK MAN WHO GOT WHAT HE DESVERS. YOU DID NOT CAUSE IT PLEASE KNOW THAT AND KNOW THAT I LOVE YOU AND THAT I AM ALWAYS HERE FOR YOU SO IF YOU WONT CALL ME PLEASE MESSAGE ME ON HERE I NEED TO KNOW THAT YOU ARE OKAY. I LOVE YOU ELIZABETH.
P.S YOU ARE THE GREATEST AND WE WILL GET THROUGH THIS TOGETHER IF YOU LET ME HELP YOU .
P.SS.
MOM IF YOU READ THIS ALL OF THIS IS TRUE AND I AM MAD AT YOU FOR NOT HELPING HER SO IF YOU WONT HELP HER AND WONT LET ME HELP HER LEAVE THE BOTH OF US ALONE I DONT WANT TO LEAVE BUT I AM 18 NOW AND IF THINGS DONT CHANGE I WILL LEAVE.
I LOVE YOU ELIZABETH YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AND A VERY VERY
STRONG YOUNGE LADY
LOVE ALWAYS YOUR COUSIN
MATT
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A friend sent this to me..As far as I can see, grief will never truly end.It may become softer overtime, more gentleand some days will feel sharp.But grief will last as long as Love does - ForeverIt's simply the way the absence of your loved onemanifests in your heart. A deep longing accompaniedby the deepest Love some days. The heavy fog mayreturn and the next day, it may recede.Once again, it's...
You are a very kind young man!