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I am not sure how to deal with knowing my biological father is dying. My heart is devistated. I am still healing from the passing of the father that raised me. He passed only 2yrs ago. I was prepared my whole life for that death. But I am not prepared for the death of my biological father. This has all come on very sudden. I am going to see him next weekend. (He lives 880 miles away-and yes I even feel guily for not being closer.) What do I say to someone who is dying? I am fortunate that he and I have a sweet relationship. I thought I was blessed having two fathers but now I realized I am going to endure the pain all over again. He was the healthy one. He was the one who was suppose to be around. He was the one who would watch my children grow. Not now, not this soon. What now? What do I do or not do?
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(((((hugs))))
It's not easy, but it is worth every tear, just love him and be there, thats all you can do!
I took a small tape recorder, and at various times of the day, taped small conversations between my dad and I. I have on tape him saying "I love you", and that he was proud of me, etc. That tape has been played over and over again, and has gotten me through a lot.
Take care of yourself!