I know this happens all the time but it really bothers me. Why so some people say the wrong things or the dumbest things after someone dies? My grandmother passed away on the 16th. Today was my first day back to work and someone says to me \"Oh well that life!\" Maybe i\'m just too sensitive but i didn\'t like that. A few days ago someone said something else that upset me. This woman who knows us tells us that now we can finally rest! What kind of comment is that?! In other words she\'s saying that my grandmother was a burden. Which she was not. I just walked away but it was on the tip of my tongue to ask her what she meant by that. There have been a few other comments also. Maybe i\'m just making it a bigger deal then it really is. I don\'t know.
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