My mom passed away 5 months ago. That isn't a very long time, at least I don't think so. My boyfriend,of 3 yrs, has never really been able to deal with it. I know I'm sad a lot, and I try to get over it, but I can't. He just keeps telling me I need to get over it and move on. That makes me so mad when he says that! He also said that if I don't like what he has to say about it then not to talk to him about my mom dying. He doesn't like to talk about it anyway because he says it just makes him sad. He really isn't a bad guy. Is he right...do I need to get over it and move on? And if he is right then were in some deep trouble b/c I don't think I can. She (mom) was my life! I'm having a hard time dealing with her death. Is he being and insensitive ass...or is he doing what is normal?
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