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I wrote this in Miscarriage and stillborn but wanted to share with all of you as well. for everyone who is grieving..
People ask how can I find a blessing in loosing your baby? I have to respond by letting them know that I find comfort in knowing that my daughter will always and forever be perfect, innocent, and pure. She will NEVER know pain or sorrow. She will never have anyone break her heart or hurt her. She will never know how cruel the world is. She will never know regret or anger and she will never cry. For this I am blessed. She is with God now and she is safe. I know that I will see her again and she will know me. Then I will hold my daughter with the purest form of love for all eternity. That thought is what gets me through the days and especially the nights. I love and miss my daughter Emilea more than words can describe, but God is taking care of her for me until I get there.
People ask how can I find a blessing in loosing your baby? I have to respond by letting them know that I find comfort in knowing that my daughter will always and forever be perfect, innocent, and pure. She will NEVER know pain or sorrow. She will never have anyone break her heart or hurt her. She will never know how cruel the world is. She will never know regret or anger and she will never cry. For this I am blessed. She is with God now and she is safe. I know that I will see her again and she will know me. Then I will hold my daughter with the purest form of love for all eternity. That thought is what gets me through the days and especially the nights. I love and miss my daughter Emilea more than words can describe, but God is taking care of her for me until I get there.
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That is a very nice thought indeed. You have come along way in your grieving, it is a positive way to think. When I had my mc, I had contracted chicken pox (very very badly) I keep in my heart that it was for the best, for the baby would have been oh so sick and who knows if he would have lived long if born the doctors said. Thank you so much for sharing such nice words......
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How precious. We lost our daughter when she was 20, but I still have a lot of the same thoughts. No one can ever hurt her again. She can love now and have no fear. These thoughts are very powerful and can really lift you up when you're mired down in your loss. Thanks for your beautiful post!
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This is so beautiful, I cried. You have a lot of faith and courage. You are one special person. I am honored to know you. Rainbowmama
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Your courage and love for your daughter is obvious and you are absolutely, 100% right!! God knows our every thought and He sees the big picture and we have to trust that there are reasons for everything that happens to us. God bless you!
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
