I would like to offer my condolences for the loss of your baby.All us grieving Mom's are having trouble with the holidays. There is no simple solution or answer.My son died last year and I can tell you the pain lessens after time but it never goes away.Us Mom's will never be the same. Please journal and do anything that you feel may help you get through the day. There are grief groups that meet in almost all the comunities out there. try different things and see where you feel comfortable.

I have not had that experience, so I don't know what I could say that would actually help you. Many here have lost babies and young children, and hopefully they will see this and share what, if anything has helped them. Time is the main thing, and I know that each minute must seem like years to you. I'm sorry.
I did look for communities specif to your need but didn't see one other than this one. I wrote in a suggestion about that, maybe one will be started.
We'll listen, we care. Huggs Rainbowmama

I am so sorry for your loss. The people here are wonderful. We are are all in the same shoes one way or another. We all have suffered a loss of a loved one. You will be able to read, vent, and share here. Take care.

I am very sorry for your loss. Talking to people who have gone through the same thing helps me and journaling. I am here because my only sibling, younger brother hanged himself a 1yr and 1/2 ago, but 13 yrs ago I was 5 mos pregnant and started bleeding and they had to induce labor, she was fine during ultrasound then died sometime, and I delivered her, she was gone, but I held her and named her and then didn't want to give her back, so brief breakdown there, but time does lessen the pain, this and other helpsites really help. Take care. Kelly

I lost my son to SIDS & if I had to give some concrete advice it would be
-prayer
-a support group like Compassionate Friends in your area
-therapy either individually or with your spouse
-reading books on grief & loss of a child
-connecting with others on DS daily, writing in your DS journal & reading others thoughts
-do not avoid, deny, or try to rush through grief
I hope some of this helps...

My Jakob passed away of SIDS sept 20th, almost two months for me too. My husband and I are getting Jakob a stocking which we will fill with little toys to put out by his gravesite, and we are going to buy an angel orniment for the tree every year and date it for Jakob. Just a few ideas you can do to include your baby, it helps to know people have not forgottin Jakob, and he will be included in christmas this year. Other than that, talk, vent, scream, cry, whatever works for you because I KNOW it will be hard, and you and I are on the same time frame.

My daughter just lost a pregnancy in September. And i had a high school friend who lost a baby to SIDS years ago. And I lost my oldest son a little over 2 years ago to suicide.

All different experiences from yours, but I can relate in some ways.

God bless you and thank you for being here.

I sent an inquiry into Administration here at DS and they tell me there is a community concerning it. Here is the link, I hope it works.
http://dailystrength.org/support/Childrens_Physical_Health/Sudden_Infant_Death_Syndrome_SIDS/
Rainbow

Sweet heart, Let yourself feel every feeling you have embrace the pain because it is for the love you had for your child. Dont ever let people tell you how to feel. Pamper yourself because you have gone thru the hardest thing a mother can ever go through. Do what ever you want . You deserve to.

I lost Nathan on Sept 10th. Just take it hour by hour. Don't rush through it, you have to let it take it's course. Don't fight it. Grief is a rollercoaster. You'll hate it, but you have to ride it.